Well, I started to post this after the first night (which is why the date says Monday), but didn't want to jinx anything and really can't say I believed we were successful after one try, but as it turns out, putting Fender down to go to sleep on his own has been yet another transition Fender seems to have taken to without much fuss.
All bias aside, he's just brilliant. ;) Honestly, that first night I even said to his Daddy, "You know, he is smart. He knows we are here if he needs. And I think he will figure out pretty quickly that it is just time to go to sleep for the night." (That was my hope anyway.)
~Monday - he went to bed awake, but tired, and a cup of milk instead of bottle. He fussed maybe 5 minutes and went to sleep on his own. Yea!!!!
~Tuesday - I gave him a little milk in a cup before carrying him to his room mostly asleep, he gave a whimper as I left the room, then was out for the night. Amazing!!!
~Wednesday - not even a cup of milk, and a little more awake then the previous two nights...he cried for 8 minutes and then went to sleep. Good boy!!!
~Thursday, a little milk before bath but none after. Played a little, read a book, put him to bed. He cried about 4 minutes and slept though night. I don't believe it!!!
~Friday, basically just put him in his crib after our evening routine when he was sleepy. No fuss. Just went to sleep.
FYI: Goes to bed around 9:00 - 9:30PM and sleeps through until about 7:30 - 8:00AM.
When I tried this on Monday my attempt was to get him to fall asleep on his own (sans mommy's arms holding him tight with a yummy bottle) but I didn't intend that he should never get a bottle again. It just turned out that he didn't need it or miss it. No big surprise I guess. He is independent and seems to take changes well.
So now I give him the last of his milk prior to "bath time" so we can brush his teeth, bathe him, read him his story and put him to bed. I have enjoyed the past year of holding and rocking him to sleep, and am so thankful that didn't seem to spoil him from going to bed on his own now.
Also, we're brushing teeth twice a day now that molars have come in. His top two molars came in last week (you may remember from the "momma's birthday" post below) and the bottom two are pushing through right now. By this time next week he will be a 12 month old with 12 teeth! Not typical but not out of the norm either.